Clever dad shows us exactly what to expect from parenthood with the help of humor

Sure, babies and kids are cute. But a vast majority of parenting is not cute.

YouTuber How to DAD knows the struggle intimately. That’s why this father from New Zealand has put out a series of informative videos on how to live life with a baby. His hilarious guides to parenthood point out the simple, accurate truths about raising a child that most people don’t focus on.

Yes, preparing yourself for changing diapers is important. But so is preparing yourself for … well, just watch in the video above.

UPDATE Feb. 21, 2017 5:30 p.m. PT: This post has been updated to correct the home country of the very informative father behind How to DAD. He’s a proud Kiwi.

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